Hum apni kahaniyo me jeete h.

Hum apni kahaniyo me jeete h.hmari kahani me sb kuch hota h or ye utar chdav se bhari hui hoti h.or kabhi kabhi hme lgta h kahani khatam hone wali h lekin whi se kahani ka nya chapter start ho jata h.or kuch stage pr aa kr to kahani ka kirdar bahut thak sa jata h...uske andar ki sari himmat khatam ho jati h.lekin hm apni kahani yha pr khatam nhi kr skte kyunki kahani me or b kirdar hote h or kisi ek glat kirdar ki wjah se hm sb kirdar ko nhi chod skte.or waise b kahani to chlti hi rehti h or isme Nye kirdar aate hi rehte h.or jis trah hr kahani ka ek anjam hota h usi trah tumhari kahani b ek mod pr ja khatam ho jayegi.or sb kirdar khud -bakhud khatam khatam ho jayege.lekin hmari kahani me kabhi kabhi aise kirdar aa jate h Jo kabhi nhi bhoolaye ja skte.or amar(immortal) ho jate h.lekin kabhi kabhi kahani me glatfahmiya b paida ho jati h or sb kirdar hm se naraz ho jate h...or hm kisi ko Samjha nhi pate..or ye waqt kahani ka sbse mushkil daur hota h or isme main kirdar ko sbr or housle se kam Lena pdta h.lekin kahani me kuch kirdar aise hote h Jo dheere dheere hme samajhne lgte h phir hme kisi or ki parwa nhi hoti.lekin agr hm shi raah pr hote h to kisi mod pr aakr sb kirdar hmari hakeekat Tasleem kr lete h.
 zaruri nhi ki hmari kahani me  happy ending ho.lekin kahani jaisi b ho aakhirkar use khatam hona hi pdta h.

Don't ruin your life

People don't like you,they like your standard,your intelligence,your money even in case of love if you have nothing special and different then people will not accept you.my bro gave me the amazing example of it.he gave the example of Bollywood movie "SULTAN"  in which when actor propose a girl then she even don't reject him but slap because actor was nothing at that time while girl was state champion in wrestling.but same guy when also become a state champion then the girl propose him in front of the world.it was the movie but reality is not differ from that.
And apart from love ,in daily life too, people will not give you value,will not accept you until unless you become something and get a power in your arms then no one can let you down. respect,value priority,it all about the money and standard in now days.
So be confident and be of yourself and yeah don't get attach too much with someone until unless they feel the same because one sided attachment can emotionally destroy you.but still if you got attached one sided then move on,its hard but once you do ,you will realize it was the best decision you have ever made.
And Know that the world and whatever in the world is temporary and it is going to be end.so try your best in this short life and dont think how the world dark is ,be like that stars that stands out and shines for others to see.

Dil aakhir tu kyu rota h (Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara)

Jab jab dard ka badal chaya

Jab gum ka saya lehraya

Jab aansu palko tak aaya

Jab ye tanha dil ghabraya

Humne dil ko yu samjhaya

Dil aakhir tu kyu rota h

Duniya me yuhi hota h

Ye Jo gehre sannate h

Waqt ne sbko hi baante h

Thoda gum h sbka qissa

Thodi dhoop h sbka hissa

Aankh teri bekar hi num h

Hr pl ek nya mausam h

Kyu tu aise pal khota h

Dil aakhir tu kyu rota h.

From Bollywood Movie 

 (Zindagi na milegi dobara)

The important thing in life

A philosophy professor stood before his class with some items on the table in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with rocks, about 2 inches in diameter.

He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

So the professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles, of course, rolled into the open areas between the rocks.

He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up the remaining open areas of the jar.

He then asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous “Yes.”

“Now,” said the professor, “I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The rocks are the important things – your family, your partner, your health, your children – things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. The pebbles are the other things that matter – like your job, your house, your car. The sand is everything else, the small stuff.”

“If you put the sand into the jar first,” he continued, “there is no room for the pebbles or the rocks. The same goes for your life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you. Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take your partner out dancing ,enjoy each and every moment of life with your family with your love. "

“Take care of the rocks first – the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.”
By Stephen.

The story of a moth and a candle

Someone said to moth,"go ,thou contemptible creature,and make friendship with one worthy of thyself.Go where thou sees the path of hope. How different is thy love from that of the candle! Thou art not a salamander -hover not around a fire,for bravery is necessary before combat. It is not compatible with reason that thou shouldst  acknowledge as a friend one whom thou knows the be thine enemy.
"What does matter if I burn?" The moth replied.
" I have love in my heart, and this flame is as a flower to me. Not of my own accord do I know myself into the fire;the chain her love is upon my neck.who is that found faults with my friendship of my friend?. I m content to be slain at her feet .I burn because she is dare to me,and because my destruction may affect her. Say not to the helpless man from whose hand the rein have fallen,drive slowly".
(Hikayat E BoSTAN saadi)